What Comes After The Law of Attraction?

Hey!

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Love to you!
Gerri x

 

With tingles all over my body and slowly, gleefully sipping a ceremonial does of cacao I share some magic with you.

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Sunrise Big Island, Hawaii

Life is good. Life is only good because of the learnings, and those learnings came from some really, really painful, tough times and clearing my ‘stuff’. We’re all on an interesting journey as we come more in line with our own divinity.  Keeping that in sight is a very good thing as we experience tough times. Anyway, I digress; I’m writing about the Law of Attraction right?  What’s the LoA got to so with our ‘stuff’’? Well, when we clear out stuff, which we do by facing up to it and really FEELING our emotions, it clears them and we manifest what we love. There’s been a lot of fear around actually being real and feeling our stuff; our fear, pain, anger and other emotions.

The Law of Attraction made big news nearly ten years ago when the movie ‘The Secret’ was launched.  I remember watching it and jumping & dancing around my home celebrating at the message it conveyed.  My partner had been telling me about all this magic, how your thoughts and words create your reality and I must admit, there was a part of me that doubted him.  When I watched the film with its amazing insights and evidence I truly celebrated that it was now out in the mainstream.  As great as ‘The Secret’ was, it also brought up a lot of confusion, doubt and fear for people because they thought that you had to feel amazing all of the time.  If you felt any negative emotions, you’d attract negativity. This is not true and I feel like this is the most important thing to remember as we create the new paradigm.  We MUST feel our feelings to clear them.  Alchemise them.  Otherwise they’re lurking around under the surface in your subconscious creating again, what you don’t love.

Your Magnificence comes from those feelings, as does enlightenment.  There’s no quick route to a blissful life, it’s the journey and it’s through continually allowing yourself to feel your feelings that you get to bliss.  I don’t suggest you drown in them, just be real and allow yourself to feel them.  Neither do I recommend drowning them with things like alcohol, drugs, smoking, busyness, but just start being conscious of them.  There’s SUCH peace underneath those feelings if you simply allow yourself to sit with them.

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“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” Melody Beattie

If you look at my blog Beliefs & The Power of The Subconscious Mind you’ll see that it’s the subconscious that creates our reality.  So if our negative emotions are tucked away there, then we’ll create more situations where we are given a chance to feel them, so we can clear them.

That’s why those that push our buttons are our best teachers. We must FEEL our emotions, it’s only by feeling them that they can dissipate.  When we bury them, we’re letting them grow and we will only create circumstances in our external world over and over again which will make us feel those emotions.

Once the ‘charge’ around our sadness, guilt or whatever the emotion is disappears, the triggers in our lives will discontinue.  Some people are simply afraid of their feelings, they’re afraid  of their ‘stuff’;  the sadness, crying, anger, or whatever.

As my first Shamanic teacher used to say ‘there’s nothing to fear but fear itself’.  By fearing we’re giving what we’re avoiding more and more power. If our negative ‘stuff’ is left unheeded, it will manifest in our outer reality.  We’re all Masters of the Law of Attraction because we’re all manifesting things we DON’T want as well as those we DO want.

There’s a wonderful process in my blog Love or Fear? click here, if you’ve got some emotions that you’d like to get to unearth, feel and release or if there’s a pattern, situation or emotion that keeps coming up over and over. When you clear your negative emotions, you have room for the juicy high vibrations to create what you DO love.

It takes high pressure and temperature to create a diamond

The Law of Clarity This is the new law; The Law of Clarity, when you’re clear of your ‘stuff’, not being perfect, but not burying your emotions either.  Letting them flow, feeling them.

Then from that space of clarity you can create what you love. Use gratitude for where you are now and what you have; this is the bridge to even more magical outcomes. Let me know how you get on with The Law of Clarity and please feel free to share this post.

I love you!

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4 thoughts on “What Comes After The Law of Attraction?

  1. crossingfrontiers

    Hey Gerri – love hearing you share about getting down and dirty with your emotions. Love the notion of alchemising them – of course that is exactly what creates the magic xx

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  2. Soul Discovery Coaching Post author

    Thank you baby, yup a whole lifetime of ‘thinking positively’ covering them up, then time in therapy to drown in them, good but not necessary for hardly anyone these days, too ‘heady’, not it really is as simply (!!in hindsight!!) as allowing, feeling and letting the peace ripple up from below them transmuting them. Love you magical one x

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  3. joyfulmara

    I have lots of feelings to alchemize! The one I am working on lately is understanding why I feel stressed and irritable under certain situations and accepting those parts of me so I can move forward. I’ve also noticed that I am throwing out the idea of really “sucking” at something before I try it and then going into the situation with the idea that I will actually conquer it. Maybe setting myself to do better than planned? Believing that my attitude at the start can help make it different than I initially expect? Thank you for sharing this post…I’m loving this reminder!

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    1. Soul Discovery Coaching Post author

      Thank you for your comment beautiful, something I love doing is actually finding the blessing in those parts too. Like for instance I know when I get stressed I have a ‘scary television producer’ side of me which comes out…

      But what I love about her is that she really gets things done, she’s pretty ambitious and focussed, so taking some of that energy is really great AND learning to love her ‘ugghy’ bits too; that helps with the alchemy!

      The more I do this work the more I realise that EVERYTHING is sent as a lesson and especially the tough ones are our biggest gifts.

      Love to you on your journey! Gerri x

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